Love... The mainest thing in our life, the strongest feeling which can make you the happiest person in the world.
Friendship... The wonderful word which means that you aren't lonely and there are people who always help you.
Both of them are very important and it's impossible to argue with it. But I'm interested what's more important for you. If you have to make a choice which of these two feelings will you prefer? What's more necessary for you... love or friendship?
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Salut….I will choose love))) This feeling is more important for me. Sometimes, when people are in love they can forgot about their friends..I think you have noticed it. Never forget about your friends and never forget about your love)) Try to combine this feelings))
I agree with Shikidim and choose love. Friends are very important for me but...love is too deep felling to control it. Sometimes friends can help you to meet your half =)))So we just need friends and time to find love and be happy. It's impossible to avoid this scheme ;-)
Yes..Love can make you the happiest person in the world,a person who love can do unbelievable things, love changes people...But love can make you the most unhappy person in the world..Love can brings great pain,too..It's just another side of love)))(Like everything has two sides) But I choose friendship,because my friends alwuys were with me(and still they are) espesially when I knew the second side of love))) Because I'm sure in reliability of my friends.And love..I'm unhappy in it and even afraid a little...
Love and friendship is like the moon and the sun, a war of two worlds. I can't choose between the two because each feeling play an important role in my life and each have an advantage and a comeback. For instance Love: a feeling deeper then friendship, a feeling that can push out all other feelings but if you lose this feeling then you will feel an emptiness which is very hard to cover and forget. Friendship on the other hand is something that can last for an eternity and runs deep between true friends but then again true frienship is very hard to come by and many will use "friendship" only to further there own gains.
These are two different feelings... Both of them are irreplaceable and should be in our life... The main thing that they have to be true/real... Everyone should have the best friend... which can support you at any moment... But also when there is a person that you love and can give you good emotions... These feelings cannot be divided and they have to be together!!... In fact love cannot give all feelings which the friendship and friendship cannot give those feelings which gives love)
Love and frienship...
I can not choose. There wasn't so big love in my life to make me forget my friends. There were no great friends to make me happy about being friends (before this september)...
oh..it's my raw, unfortunately. as for me, I choose love. because your love always is your friend at the same time, but your friend can't be your love. but i also think that we need both love and friendship
Well, it's a very difficult questoin. I mean, I just couldn't imagine this situation. I agree with Sisi that your love always your friend at the same time, but I think your friends loves you too(in a different way, of course, but still). And if your friends loves you and your love loves you they just wouldn't make you choose, I believe so
In my opinion,love and friendship are two constituents, without which persons can not exist.I agree with Sisi that in the love you should see a friend also, but to socialize only with the darling -it's not good,I think. That people did not talk, it will always want to be divide with someone about the happiness or secrets about a darling, about that does not arrange in a darling etc. there are such things of,o which do not need to be told a darling, here just friends will help only! I know, can I am not rights! In a question about a choice, I can not exclude something from the life!, it only is fascination to the young man, without talks, will choose a friend! If a friend begins to present me with an ultimatum - it is a not friend already.
I seem to tell you already that I don't believe in faithful friendship, so the answer is obvious - love! Moreover I usually didn't tell my used-to-be friends about my love relations - girls are usually jealous, especially if they are not in close relationship. That's why I managed to avoid problems of choosing.
I agree with Lyalinka, that person can't exist without love and friendship!!! Both of them are very important! Especially in our cruel reality where it's so difficult to find a real love and a real friend... The most important thing for me it's love...I thing that nobody of friends will substitute your love)))
Dear, E.Yu,I agree with you...girls are very jealous, and I think not only girls...people are. Usually they can't be glad of smb's hapiness.
Yees,the reckless jealousy ruins everything, converts relations into a flour. =(
Ph...I don`t belive in love at all, I think it is just an affection towards 2 people...
As my friend said-'To live together is lousy, but to be alone even more lousy")) There are lots of reasons why I`m saying so...nevermind.It`s all my rats in the attic)
I rate my friends...And they are much importante for me, than some schmaltz crap))
i think...that teese 2feelings are both importand in our lifes...but i thing that the choice is depend on your age....if we are young as now of course it will be friendship.... because we are too young for real love....and to miss friends it is very easy, unfurtunatly((((
I completely agree with E.Yu! I don't believe in unselfish friendship. 2 years ago I had a friend, I think she was my close-friend, but it was a mistake: she betrayed me. It was like a bolt from the blue sky!((( Thats why I choose LOVE!
For me it is very difficult for comparing. At this momentI know 3 types of love. Love to parents, Love to the friend, love to the young man. And from one I could not refuse or exchange. All is very expensive to me, but on different ways. I consider that it is impossible to compare friendship and love. These are two feelings without which very difficult to live for person.
For me it is very difficult for comparing. At this momentI know 3 types of love. Love to parents, Love to the friend, love to the young man. And from one I could not refuse or exchange. All is very expensive to me, but on different ways. I consider that it is impossible to compare friendship and love. These are two feelings without which very difficult to live for person.
I desagree with Lionel that if you were betrayed by a friend,friendship does not exist, it depends on a man!
I absolutely agree with Sisi "your love always is your friend at the same time, but your friend can't be your love".
But us for me love is mainest thing in my life. I have my only person. And he replaces to me all my friends.
Oh, Lyalinka, of course you are right!
But she was like a sister for me! We have no sicrets from each other, thats why it was so painfully for me...
I believe in frendship, and you always will be my friend, but my choice is love. I want to love and be loved!
All we need is love.
I think that love will be more important to me, the friend will come next. Cannot explane why
Hi everyone, it is london_calling! I will choose love because you can't make kids with a friend!(joke) To be serious the greatest thing in life to find you second part, to feel other person like yourself, to share with each other all kinds of emotions, to die in one day. I really believe in that, but not everyone will find such part and i can tell you more i don't believe that i will find one.
it's difficult questoin....I think I had never feel in true love...I don't know what is it...and I think I choose friendsip...because I can't live without friends... I have real friends who can alweys help me, with whom I can alweys talk and discuse all of things....it is exellent when you have love and friend in one man...but I heven't...and choose friends...
Hi everyone, it's Onotole.
I just don't understand why should i choose between love and friendsip? It's not a problem to combine it. And still I'm not commited with a girl - i think friendship is stronger. I mean, what I had before was just a passion for month or some more. It started, and it ended. Friends are a different story. With best ones I'm being in harmony for a number of years. I hope some day I'll change my mind. Some beautiful stranger will make me change it)
hi,friends! We were discussing this topic with my boyfriend and my friend together for an hour, it was rather funny)) I never had any doubts about my choise, of course it'll be friendship! Because friends (if they are given to you), are given forever! And if your love and your friend are real, you'll never have to do the choise! I also want to add, that I really Love my friend! So, I don't agree with the opinion that '...your friend can't be your love' friedship is love, it's just another type of it.
Well, guys, I've just read all comments... And what I can say...I agree that many of us don't need to do the difficult choice between love and friendship. BUT can you imagine that you have to do it and you don't have other variant...
As for me at this moment I think I will prefer love but of course my opinion can change in the future. But sure both love and friendship are dear to me.
If I have no choice, I will prefer love, but it wiil be difficult for me...
My decision is both love and friendship. I think those two can’t survive without each other. Can u tell that u don’t feel love to your closest friend and that the one you really love is not your friend? But, whatever, It’s a very complicated question … or not? Maybe it’s just a problem of understanding? I think, real love and real friendship will never make me to choose.
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